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Few substance abuse programs in the U.S. offer high-quality treatment designed specifically for adolescents, a new study finds.

Of the more than 700 treatment programs the study surveyed, less than one-third had specialized services for teenagers — with some excluding underage patients altogether and others integrating them with adult patients.

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Vice President Joe Biden was expected to name Kerlikowske as chief of the Office of National Drug Control Policy, a job that requires Senate confirmation, at a midday ceremony, an administration official said, speaking on condition of anonymity because the announcement had not yet been made.

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An essay on the subject of “What is Recovery” raises, for me, the question of what is Addiction. Since everyone of us has an idea, our own idea, of what Addiction is, we'll also have our own answer to “What is Recovery?”

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Sobriety and Maturity — Is There a Connection? PDF Print E-mail
Written by Brian Duffy, MA, LMHC   
Friday, 04 January 2008 02:16
You’re in a restaurant, and a child at the next table (they’re always at the next table) begins to act up. He wants what he wants — and he wants it now. He is the center of his universe. He is being a child. That’s his job. It causes me to consider the parallels between the child’s behavior and that of the person in early recovery. The road to maturity is one of delaying our gratification, walking through our fears, accepting that life is hard, learning how to bond and have fun with others, coping with hardship, practicing patience and tolerance, etc. Although we worry about adolescents who use substances to eliminate the pain of normal development, these lessons can be learned and relearned at any age.

The role of maturity has important implications for all people recovering from substance dependence. When clients pursue maturity, they’re moving toward recovery, and vice versa.

Self-efficacy

Children from supportive families often hear encouraging words such as: “C’mon, you can do it. Great job! You’re the best.” Unfortunately, many of our clients reach adulthood without ever hearing “Attaboy.” Worse, they are told that they are “losers” and that they’ll never amount to anything. Their addictive behavior only solidifies that role in the eyes of their loved ones.



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